If you’ve been in a relationship for a while you know how easy it can be to fall into a routine of the same old, same old. Keep things hot by mixing it up with these fun and unique ideas:
- Try new activities together. Usually spend Friday nights watching movies on the couch? Try out a new activity together like bowling, mini golf or eating a new type of cuisine on your next date. Getting out of your comfort zone as a couple is not only fun but will bring you closer together too.
- Spend time apart. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, so spend time with other groups of friends. You’ll look forward to seeing each other afterwards and have lots to talk about. Being apart makes you appreciate being together.
- Look your best. It’s great to be comfortable around your partner, but after a while it’s easy to let yourself go. Too many nights in wearing sweats and an old t-shirt can send the message that you just don’t care as much as you used to. Try dressing up a little and putting a bit more care into your appearance the way you did when you were first trying to catch their eye. You’ll feel hotter and they’ll definitely notice.
Some relationship problems are small misunderstandings or are easily repaired with a little communication. Then there are others that should sound the alarm and send you running:
1. History of bad relationships. Did their previous relationships all end in cheating, scandal and bad blood? This is a definite sign of the type of behavior that they are prone to. If all their relationships have had nasty, volatile endings, you have to wonder how yours will be any different.
2. You catch them lying. Lying of any kind is a major warning sign. Even if they lie about little things, you have to wonder what else they’ll be dishonest about and why they feel they can’t be honest with you.
3. Explosive communication style. If they totally shut down and storm out, or fly off the handle and explode every time a conflict arises you need to take notice. You’ll never survive any of life’s obstacles if you can’t even talk without a major blowup.
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You insult my best friend? You’ll die!
-Grey’s Anatomy s07e22
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I learned about this in Psychology class. Whichever way the girl is spinning is your dominant brain. If she turns directions, you use both sides of your brain equally. And if you can get her to turn whichever way you want, you have a lot of control over both sides.
OMG, I see both.
OMG. IT’S NOT TURNING. What does it mean? That i’m a dead brain??? LOLjk. :)) But this is a cool post!
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